• Septimaeus@infosec.pub
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    4 months ago

    I’m glad this issue is gaining broader international recognition.

    The strategies we’ve used to address it online seem to have mostly forced it underground without actually stopping the spread. It’s not just a few dark corners of social media where you’ll find evidence of it, either. You’ll see it pretty regularly in some of the largest communities on Lemmy, and anywhere young men congregate.

    As for how we fix it, ultimately I think the way we socialize our young people is long overdue a shift from highly gendered social role reinforcement to a more flexible empathy-centric value system. But for the young men who have already been radicalized, I think an obvious start would be deprogramming by offering them more positive masculine identities than the machismo currently served up by pop culture.

    One approach could, for example, emphasize qualities that are already familiar aspects of that identity, such as responsibility to others, protecting the weak, serving a community, etc. Regardless of the approach, there’s power in expectation. IMHO the people most well-equipped to do this are the cis men of earlier generations, simply because they are who these boys instinctively look up to the most.

    And if that describes you, it’s something you can start doing today by simply knowing what to look for and when to step in.

    • surewhynotlem@lemmy.world
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      4 months ago

      a shift from highly gendered social role reinforcement to a more flexible empathy-centric value system

      “More queer woke shit.” Is exactly how half the country will react. They don’t want this fixed. They don’t see a problem.

      You’re right though. 100%